Who says guys get to have all the fun? The soon to be new bride has worked for months putting together and planning the perfect wedding. It’s time to celebrate and have one last girl’s night – the Bachelorette Party.
While bachelor parties have been traditional pre-wedding events for years, bachelorette parties are a fairly recent event. While the standard bachelor party is looked as “the last night of freedom”, women tend to view a bachelorette party as a time of bonding with her friends before taking on her new role as wife.
The bachelorette party is as unique as the bride and has far less traditional activities than the bachelor party. Here are a few options to look at when planning a bachelorette party.
A Night at the Clubs
Think of this as ladies night out with a few extra twists. Start by renting a limo for the evening. The night begins with dinner, either at someone’s home or in the bride’s favorite restaurant. After eating, hop in the limo, open a bottle of champagne and head off to which is the local hotspot or the bride’s favorite night club.
Part of the fun of the evening is for the bride to be the center of attention everywhere she goes. How to safely accomplish this? Have the bride wear a tiara or a veil, usually the bigger and tackier the better. If the traditional veil is a little to boring for the bride, a more risqué option would be to handcuff her to a blow up doll for the evening. That will certainly get everyone’s attention.
Depending on the group, spend the night clubbing and crawl home in the wee hours of the morning, or for a tamer crowd, enjoy a night club or two and then wrap the evening up with coffee and dessert on the way home.
Strippers and Booze and Men, Oh My!
For the woman who wants to celebrate her last night of freedom in a more traditional manner, there are exotic dancers who “strip” at private parties, as well as adult night clubs to fill this void. If hiring an exotic dancer be clear about exactly how “exotic” you’d like him to be and give the agency the “type” you are looking for. Do you want a business man to strip down to briefs or a fire fighter stripping down to the tiniest thong you’ve every seen in your entire life?
Dance Lessons – Not You’re Mother’s Jitterbug
Pole dancing and exotic dance are all the rage. Have a private group lesson with a professional dancer either in their studio or in your home. Follow up your lesson with snacks and drinks to replace all those calories you burnt off during class.
Spa Day Visit – A Chance to Relax
What woman doesn’t love a pampering day at the spa? An afternoon at the spa is a perfect girlfriends retreat and a much deserve retreat. Enjoy a massage, pedicure, facial or other spa treatment. Most spas have a signature treatment, which is an especially nice gift for the bride. Also, many spa also now offer either fruit platters and wine or light, healthy lunches. When making the group reservation, let the manager know about the bachelorette party and ask if they have any recommendations or special packages available.
The bachelorette party is a great time to unwind and have that final girl’s night out celebration before the wedding. So laugh, reminisce and share this special time with the bride-to-be.
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